Are you religious because you studied ALL religions and made a decision, or because your parents told you?

I have never been known to do anything I am told to...
no I dont have the same religion as my parents
they are non practising Christians ( they fell out with church )
and I am a Spiritualist
and yes it took me years of searching for a religion that I could relate to
my beliefs are almost the same
but even still , I am searching and not comfortable in one label